Today, I asked a mother but not my mother. I asked what type of future ‘menantu’ she wants for her daughter. Actually what I mean is dari sudut pandangan orang tua. And she said, “kalau boleh nak yang beriman. Kalau ustaz lagi bagus”.
See that. I never ask my parents about this, gila tak berani. But I guess it’s same. Korung punya parents pun mesti mengimpikan yang sama jugak betul tak?
Ok tok sah cakap pasal itu semua lah. Tapi cakap pasal my future daughter and you too. Wauuu! Sangat jauh kehadapan.
Kalau meletak kan diri dalam our parents’s shoes, mungkin kita akan faham kenapa mereka selalu berfikir macam ni, bertindak macam ni, melarang macam ni, menyuruh macam ni, berharap macam ni dan bermacam macam ‘macam’ lagi.
One fine day, InsyaAllah, everybody going to be a mother or a father of daughters and sons right. So bila anak dah meningkat dewasa, dah habis belajar, berada di final semester, what do you want your daughter/son going to be?
Kerja?
Get married?
Continue master?
OK let’s say you want your daughter further her study. Buat master sebab reason nya bila ada master you akan nampak lebih ceredik dari orang lain, tahap pelajaran you pun for sure high than others yang ada degree ja.
Anak nak kerja. Reason nak pegang duit sendiri, then boleh beli kereta walaupun memandu pun fail.
We as parents said, kereta bila bila boleh beli, nanti nanti pun boleh. Every year release new edition, tak ke mana kereta tu.
Anak add another alasan nak kerja nak duit sebab boleh la beli macam macam, (stupid reason).
We as parents said, duit tu semua boleh cari, esok lusa dah dapat master, kerja, ada duit, beli la macam macam tu.
Anak senyap tak tau nak kata apa.
For me, sambung master ni bila bila pun boleh. Apasalah nya biarkan anak pergi kerja, sekurang kurangnya dia dapat pengalaman. Pengalaman itu paling berharga dalam hidup. Setiap detik yang dilalui di atas muka bumi Allah ini amat bermakna. Jumpa bermacam macam orang, bermacam macam gelagat manusia, bermacam macam situasi, semua ni dengan secara tak sengaja memupuk diri, mengajar diri, dan menambahkan ilmu tentang kehidupan bersosial di kalangan masyarakat.
Masaalah sekarang ni you faham ke, what is your parent's hope on you?
How about you?
What do you want in your life?
Actually, what is all this about? I don’t know, I just wrote it. Who's got it, good. For those who don't, I'am sorry.
Thank you.
May Allah Bless You Always
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